Post from Dayna Lucas, Dan's mom

The outpouring of love and support from so many people that knew Dan really do help us deal with our terrible loss.  My profound feelings of guilt and horror are slowly but surely turning to a sadness that will remain but also to acceptance.

I know that Dan did have a full life.  He had a fierceness and stubborness and intensity that could be exasperating, but he also had a brightness and sweetness in his approach to life and to relationships that was endearing.  He was enthusiastic about so many things and people and he did have a  pride in his accomplishments.  He loved the outdoors and all kinds of music; he was a wonderful writer and an insightful reader.  He was passionate about all kinds of learning.  He knew how to be a good friend and a good team player in sports and in academics.  He knew how to love and I know that he knew that he was loved.

Dan courageously fought mental illness for much of his life.  Although at the end, he was overcome by irrational thoughts and feelings that led to a violent and senseless act, I know that he is now at peace. I know that he mattered not only to us, his family, but also to his and our many friends and acquaintances.  Thank you all so much for sharing your memories with us on this blog.